Look, I’m Gonna Say It: We’re All a Little Crazy
I was at a bar in Chicago last Tuesday with my buddy Marcus. (Let’s call him Marcus because his actual name is embarrassing and he’d kill me if I used it.) We were watching the Cubs game, and let me tell you, it was a disaster.
Marcus, he’s a die-hard Cubs fan, right? Like, wears a Cubs hat to bed, has a Cubs tattoo on his shin (which honestly, who does that?), the whole nine yards. So the Cubs are down by three in the eighth, and Marcus is losing it. He’s yelling at the TV, throwing popcorn, calling the manager names that would make a sailor blush.
I’m just sitting there, sipping my beer, thinking, This is us. This is sports fandom in a nutshell. We’re all a little crazy, a little irrational, a little too invested. And you know what? I love it.
Why Do We Put Ourselves Through This?
I mean, honestly, why? Why do we commit to this emotional rollercoaster? Last year, I did a little unscientific survey with some friends. 214 respondents, basically just people I know and a few strangers I cornered at the gym. (You know, real scientific stuff.)
And get this: 87% of them said they’d rather watch their favorite team lose than not watch at all. Eighty-seven percent! That’s insane, right? But it’s true. We’d rather suffer than miss out.
My friend Dave, he’s a Packers fan. (Poor guy.) I asked him, Dave, why do you do this to yourself? And he just looked at me and said, Because it’s not about the wins, man. It’s about the team. It’s about the tradition. It’s about… I don’t know, man, it’s about the feeling.
Which… yeah. Fair enough.
But Here’s the Thing: It’s Not All Bad
Look, I get it. Sports can be frustrating. It can be heartbreaking. It can make you want to throw your TV out the window. (Not that I’ve ever done that. Twice.)
But it’s also beautiful. It’s about community. It’s about shared experiences. It’s about the underdog finally winning one, or the veteran having his moment, or the kid from nowhere becoming a star.
And yeah, it’s about the hatred too. I’m not gonna lie, I hate the Patriots. (Sorry, New Englanders.) But that hatred? It’s part of the fun. It’s part of the commitment.
I remember back in 2016, the Cubs finally won the World Series. I was at a bar in Austin with a bunch of strangers, and when that last out was caught, it was electric. People were crying, hugging, screaming. It was chaos. And it was beautiful.
A Quick Digression: Sports and Travel
You know what pairs well with sports fandom? Travel. No, seriously. There’s something about going to a new place and finding a local sports bar, or better yet, a stadium tour. It’s like a physicaly manifestation of the fandom.
I once spent a weekend in Denver, and I found this amazing little place near Coors Field. The ammendments to the stadium were fascinating, and the bar had this adventure travel activities guide that was basically a sports fan’s dream. It was like a mini-vacation within my vacation.
But enough about that. Let’s get back to the madness.
The Dark Side of Fandom
Now, I’m not gonna sit here and pretend that sports fandom is all sunshine and rainbows. It’s not. It can be ugly.
I was at a game a few years back, and some drunk guy started yelling racist stuff at a player. And I’m just sitting there, thinking, This is not what this is about. Sports should bring us together, not tear us apart.
And look, I’m not saying I’m perfect. I’ve said things I regret. We all have. But we gotta do better. We gotta remember that at the end of the day, it’s just a game. It’s not worth hating someone over.
So What Now?
I don’t know, man. I don’t have all the answers. But I know this: sports are a beautiful mess. They’re irrational and emotional and sometimes downright stupid.
But they’re also ours. They’re part of our lives, part of our stories. And I wouldn’t trade that for anything.
So keep yelling at the TV. Keep hating the teams you hate. Keep loving the teams you love. Just remember to have a little perspective. And maybe, just maybe, enjoy the ride.
Because it’s gonna be a wild one.
About the Author: Hey, I’m Alex Carter. I’ve been writing about sports for longer than I care to admit. I’ve covered everything from high school games to the Super Bowl, and I’ve learned one thing: sports fans are a special breed. When I’m not writing, you can find me at a bar, yelling at a ref, or trying to explain to my cat why the Cubs won’t sign that one player I really want. Follow me on Twitter @AlexCarterWrites, and feel free to argue with me about anything sports-related.
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